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CandiD, Socio-EcologicaL PerspectivE
Wednesday, November 8, 2023
You Are Stupid! Thank You Policeman
Wednesday, March 22, 2023
Evil Woman: to hell with your wealth, go alone!
Yesterday, I parted ways with ‘a friend’ for what I silently considered (in my heart) brutal theft and slavery. I felt guilty of sponsoring a devil whose deeds simply haunt the future of the world.
Guilt-ridden because I
pay handsomely for the thick delicious watermelon classes of juice they serve
me, so silly me expected that the extra dollar trickles down to those who
prepare and serve. I realized that it doesn’t happen at all, the rich woman is
a devil alive.
You get tired of being served by a disconsolate sister
or daughter. Shame thus, affects your appetite, because no amount of ‘tipping’
can change things for these poor girls. Not even trying to pay twice the cost
of a glass of juice can solve their problem; see, the economy is not good also.
So I called it quits, bitterly. That was yesterday, just here in Kampala.
My so called friend is a thief. She is evil, heartless
and greedy. Woman takes advantage of young, destitute girls. She carrots them
into coming to her premises for work and serves them pain and regrets.
She owns a hotel with; restaurant, bar, massage parlor
and others. Despite making colossal amount of money every day, she doesn’t give
her workers food. She expects the girls to attract ‘tips’ from customers to
form their eats. After months of watching, I couldn’t bare it any further
because I realized that she changes workers every week.
On first day of reporting; the young girls look bright, smooth, they look happy and flagrantly ambitious. However, they suddenly lose the oomph and register fatigue just on day two. Then they are sick, bitter and frowning like Salmonella infected chicken, by end of week.
I noticed
different faces get on service every week, then studied their deterioration, and
felt that intense emotion, thus swearing not to be back there. To hell with her
and wealth, let her go alone.
It seems that every weekend finds my friend’s workers comprehensively frustrated and looking back. Then she (my friend) opens her gate and disgorge the hungry workers off her premises without a single penny; not for transport, not a bottle of drinking water. Could this be why several fine looking girls fill up the streets at night searching for men who can pay and have?
You know what? It’s even quite difficult to help these girls out apparently because not a single law is straight forward on such a case. It’s high time our law makers looked into ways of hunting down this inhuman treatment.
Without a reference document for a job, the employee is
helpless. That’s how bad employers prick their workers, they kill evidence of employment.
Uganda’s current minimum wage is Sh6,000 which came
into force in 1984, but things have totally changed and there is urgent need to
review it so as to solve the infinite rates and the open-ended terms that
people like my friend use to abuse our sisters and daughters.
There was a Shs75,000 figure for unskilled workers recommended by the Minimum Wage Advisory Council in 1995 but not enforced to-date. Another 2013 attempt in which MP Arinaitwe Rwakajara proposed a Shs250,000 minimum, equally plummeted. The latest was a suggestion of Shs130,000 by the Minimum Wages Advisory Board in 2015 and debates on it rebooted in 2021, it’s still hanging.
There is need
to make these good suggestions practical so as to reduce on exploitation of young
people by unscrupulous employers. The other good thing to do is to continue
being more positive and welcoming to foreign investors so that our children can
get more decent jobs.
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Tuesday, February 28, 2023
Grandma Died Ripe and Happy at 90, She Didn’t Cry
Last year,
we (her grandchildren) decided to build for her a decent house so as to bolster
her protection. We knew that comfort would keep her less stressed and prolong
her life, because she didn’t have any known medical disorder. Unfortunately,
the old woman passed on after sleeping in her new home for only a week. May her
soul rest with the Angels.
My grand-mom’s
death was slightly similar to that of her husband who retired (to heaven) five
years ago. He equally didn’t present any medical disorder, but we thought his
was propelled by excessive consumption of alcohol. He never signed a divorce
document with waragi (crude alcohol) until
he flew away (to heaven).
Surprisingly,
grandfather’s death didn’t give him pain. He only harvested the inconvenience
of walking easily when he got multiple dislocations caused by falling down time
and again after drinking his thing. When he died, he already had strained unrepairable
muscles and tissues, but he didn’t cry of pain. He would only cry for his drink
when we visited him. So, he died softly, like taking a long, deep sleep lasting
forever. May his soul rest with the Angels.
On the day
we were burying grandfather, we feared that her elder wife(grandma) would not
stay longer. She looked very fragile. She was as brittle as an old woman who
got beaten mercilessly and dumped along the road to die painfully on her own. We
knew that it was simply the weight of her husband’s death pressing her, hard. Anyway,
she endured and with the charm of her daughters and sons, she remained strong
and got even stronger with time. Thank God, she had clean blood, -with no
chronic condition at all.
Grandmother
was a very hopeful old woman who even made personal savings from her Social Protection
earnings given by Government. When we
were building her house, she would ask us to be open to her in case we run shot
of funds.
“I can
contribute, it’s my own house, just let me know”, she would tell us. She was a woman
of very few words, a shy woman who only expressed her emotions through plain countenance.
Her wide natural smiles would constantly
expose her well-spaced, large teeth. We will continue having strong memories of
her in our minds because she lived a simple, quiet and non-violent life.
During
last year’s Christmas festival, I had the last moment with grandmother
including making her interact with great grandchildren at home. It was nice
mixing for her a drink and observing her animated comment that made her look
like an adolescent girl.
Now that
she is deceased, I realize that spending all forms of resources on elderly
people is no wastage. It satisfies the doer emotionally and gratifies the receiver of care.
Elderly
people need more support than we most times think. They need coordinated care
involving constant presence of a physician and someone to keep them clean
always. They require invariable amount of social inclusion to keep them off isolation
and its resulting emotional distress. So when we have children, let’s have them
play near our elderly people to keep them cheerful and worriless. It’s good to
die when ripe and happy.
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Tuesday, December 20, 2022
Why Africa is Poor and Underdeveloped Compared to Rest of the World
Robert Emmanuel Owiny ( reflection 2020)
AFRICA is
the second largest Continent in the world after Asia. This is based on
geographical coverage and population size. It is home to an estimated one billion people
who occupy about 20% of the total land area. Located at the centre of the
earth, Africa is largely made up of tropical climate and comprises 54 countries.
The proportion of the population of Africa living in family units with
expenditure or income per individual below the poverty line has been on the
decrease since 1990 (World Bank 2007)
Poverty is a complex phenomenon that generally refers to
inadequacy of resources and deprivation of choices that would enable people to
enjoy decent living conditions (United Nations Human Development Report, 1998).
Meanwhile the World Bank, (2000), says,
“Poverty is pronounced deprivation in well-being.”
Generally, poverty refers to a deficiency or lack of basic human needs such as food, shelter, etc. in a society. Poverty indicators includes; lack of income and productivity, insufficient resources to ensure sustainable livelihoods, hunger and malnutrition, ill-health, limited or lack of access to education and other basic services, homelessness or inadequate housing, unsafe environment. Social discrimination and exclusion. It is also characterized by a lack of participation in decision and in civil, social and cultural life (Ashaver et al 2013). In its most extreme form, poverty is a lack of basic human needs to sustain as useful and working efficiency such as adequate and nutritious food, clothing, housing, clean water and health services (Korankye: 2014)
Underdevelopment on the other hand denotes an economic state characterised by exceptionally low living standard by majority population as a result of an equally low per capita income level due to low levels of productivity versus high population growth rates. The causes of underdevelopment are not limited to the core factors in the standard economic framework, but psychological, social, and cultural factors are fundamental factors (World Bank, 2015)
Despite the widely known nature’s endowments of Africa, a number of challenges have rendered the continent poor and rated as the most underdeveloped compared to rest of the World.
Generally, 45% of people living below $ 1 a day are in Sub Saharan Africa. The poverty situation data also depicts country variations with; Uganda, Mali, Nigeria, Zambia, Niger, Madagascar, Zimbabwe, Burundi and Rwanda having more than 50 percent of their population living below $ 1 a day in 2002. The sub-region also records more rural poverty than urban poverty with 37 percent of the population in the rural areas living below two-third of their national mean per capita income (World Bank 2007).
Poverty and
underdevelopment in Africa is caused by a number of issues such as; corruption
and poor governance, poor land utilisation and land tenure system, civil wars
and unending political conflicts, poor infrastructure, diseases and poor health
facilities, the World Bank and IMF policies, among others (Korankye: 2014).
To dig deeper, Africa’s key challenges that cause the interminable poverty and persistent underdevelopment compared with the rest of the world includes among others:
The effects of conflicts. Civil wars and terror incidences are destructive to wealth accumulation and development initiatives and yet Africa has suffered and still experiences a number of conflicts in different countries. This partly is responsible for making the continent remain poor and underdeveloped. Most countries in Africa are notorious for civil wars, either between neighbouring countries or within the same country. Such incidences render war zones unproductive, in addition to scaring away investment that would otherwise help foster economic development and create employment, which would help people get out of poverty (Korankye: 2014).
In oil rich Nigeria; Boko Haram insurgency has not only caused over 100,000 deaths, but affected the social economic progress of that West African Country. Other countries with critical insurgencies include; Somalia and South Sudan. Wars disrupt businesses, cause sporadic migration, leads to abandonment of professions and jobs, discourages foreign investment, causes food scarcity and dehumanizes people. These attracts poverty to Africa compared to other parts of the World.
Corruption is yet
another chronic disease that affects Africa’s steady development and pushes huge
population of Africans to the wall of poverty. Few individuals especially
within government and politics divert to personal accounts heavy chunks of
public funds meant for addressing development needs such as; improving
livelihoods, enhancing infrastructure, improving health or strengthening
education. This is responsible for the unequal distribution of resources and
poor infrastructures in the continent.
“Dishonest and heartless African leaders are responsible for auctioning and or mortgaging the economic base of their countries for their personal gains. Some of these leaders divert money borrowed from International Financial Institutions and developed countries for developmental projects into their private pockets”, (Tazoacha: 2011).
Land mismanagement. Africa has
large and productive land that could steer economic development; provide enough
food for both consumption and exports, effectively support infrastructural
advancements such as better road network, better institutions and support
industrialisation. However, the land is poorly managed and as such, few people
gain from it while majority lose out. Most African nations have very poor land
registration systems, making squatting and land theft common occurrences. This
makes it difficult to get a mortgage or similar loan, as ownership of the
property often cannot be established to the satisfaction of financiers.
“In most
African countries, people own vast land that are underutilised or sometimes not
even used at all. This is partly because they are either not educated on what
to do with the land, or because some people are just stuck in their rudimentary
ways of doing things. Some people just use the land to grow crops which are
just enough for subsistence survival. Nothing goes to the market for sale. This
is a contributor to poverty in Africa,” (Korankye: 2014, page 152)
Challenges of diseases. The health infrastructure system in Africa is weak and this guarantees poor health condition of most people, thus affecting economic performance because unhealthy human capital cannot work effectively. Equally more investments are diverted to treat diseases rather than deploy it to bolster economic growth and development. Impediments caused by Malaria, HIV/AIDS, cancer among other diseases puts the continent at the losing end compared to the rest of the world. According to the UN, the vast majority of people living with HIV are located in low- and middle- income countries, with an estimated 25.5 million living in Sub-Saharan Africa. Among this group 19.4 million are living in East and Southern Africa which saw 44% of new HIV infections globally in 2016, (UNAIDS 2017)
Foreign aid. Most, if not all African countries are tied off by donor/developed countries through foreign aid. On the surface, aid appears like a positive initiative for Africa and yet it is in fact a draining tube for Africa’s potential. According to a report by Health Poverty Action, “While $134 billion flows into the continent each year, predominantly in the form of loans, foreign investment and aid; $192 billion is taken out, mainly in profits made by foreign companies, tax dodging and the costs of adapting to climate change. The result is that Africa suffers a net loss of $58 billion a year. As such, the idea that we are aiding Africa is flawed; it is Africa that is aiding the rest of the world.” Furthermore, aid funds are largely misappropriated by corrupt government officials in Africa, e.g. the GAVI fund scandal in Uganda. Such ‘technical irregularities’ weakens the economic potential of Africa, thus rendering the continent poor and underdeveloped.
Foreign aid dependency inhibits economic development or mobilisation of domestic resources it undercuts countries’ ability to chart their own development strategies, which is what is needed if development is to really take root. It does this by reducing developing countries policy autonomy, undermining recipient governments’ accountability to their own citizens, and making it harder for them to plan development programmes due to its unpredictability (ActionAid 2011)
Geopolitics. Despite the glaring structural challenges Africa has also been stepped on by European powers for several centuries. For instance, slave trade disorganised the human resources in Africa let alone creating a depopulation of the continent and inflicting injuries and pain on the black people. At the same time there is continuous exploitation of Africa’s resources which end up being repatriated to developed countries at the expense of African countries and people. In the nineteenth century, the slave trade was replaced by direct colonial rule and a century of exploitation by European imperial powers, who left very little behind in education, healthcare, and physical infrastructure. Adding to the burden, during the Cold War politics of the late twentieth century, many African countries found themselves to be battlegrounds in a global ideological struggle. (McCord et al, 2005)
Illiteracy barriers. Education
or level of literacy plays a fundamental role in propelling development and yet
most African countries significantly fall short of this. Illiteracy has remained an ulcer on the foot for
development in Africa. It is one of the impediments that have not enabled
Africa to achieve sustainable development. It is one of the forces turning the
wheel of sustainable development in Africa anticlockwise. From the Heavily
Indebted Poor Countries (HIPCS) 1997 selected human development indicators, we
will notice that some African countries still fall below 40% of adult literacy.
These are Niger 14%, Somalia 24%, Mali 31% Sierra Leone 31%, Senegal 33%,
Guinea 36%, Ethiopia 36%, Benin 37%, Liberia 38% (Tazoacha,2001)
“If a panacea is not sought for, Africa will remain vulnerable to underdevelopment, ignorance and insecurity”, Tazoacha points out. Thus the continent is underdeveloped and lags behind compared to other parts of the world due to the apparent low literacy level.
Infrastructure challenges. The challenge for Africa is to achieve regional integration of its infrastructure towards turning the continent’s geography of 54 separate countries into an economic and social advantage, (World Bank, 2014). Unlike other continents such as America, and Europe which heavily work through stable blocs with excellent infrastructure, Africa is highly fragmented, with a large number of landlocked countries and generally poor transport and communication infrastructure. This is to the continent’s disadvantage in terms of trade efficiency, communication etc.
Environmental abuse. Destructive activities in Africa are also responsible for slowing down development effort in the continent. Deforestation caused by illegal logging, the felling of trees for firewood and charcoal for cooking, and “slash and burn” farming practices has reduced biodiversity in Africa, and weakened the ability to adapt to climate change. Yet this situation reflects the reality of energy insecurity in Africa in terms of increasing demand due to population growth and dwindling supply of traditional fossil fuels. Heavy reliance on non-renewable fuel sources for domestic energy supply in most of sub-Saharan Africa contributes to ecosystem degradation, which is threatening wildlife and endangered species, and destroys natural forests (Besada, et-al 2009).
In conclusion, Africa remains deeply impoverished and rated as the most underdeveloped continent compared to the rest of the world due to a number of factors. Some factors are man-made –politically bread while others are natural factors that need to be addressed today. Despite the available resources, much work is needed around policies, education and adoption of new technology if the continent is to improve and try to catch up with other continents.
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Thursday, August 4, 2022
Karamoja Cultural Event 2022, a Platform for Peace Brokerage
FROM August 30 to September 3, this
year, the people of Karamoja will converge in the scenic Abim district for a cultural
festival organized by the Karamoja Cultural Association (KCA). This is an
annual event held rotationally within the nine Karamojong districts of:
Karenga, Kaabong, Kotido, Abim, Napak, Moroto, Amudat, Nakapiripirit and
Nabilatuk. It was Amudat district that hosted the last chapter in
2019 before a sequential disruption by COVID-19 from 2020 to 2021 when the
disease took control of the World.
This unique carnival attracts different
Karamojong clusters beyond frontiers. Comrades from: North Western Kenya
(Turkana, Pokot); South Western Ethiopia (Daasanach, Nyangatom); South-Eastern
South Sudan (Toposa, Didinga) and North Eastern Uganda (Dodoth, Iik, Jie,
Matheniko, Thur, Tepeth, Bokora, Pian, Pokot) fully participate. Other close
associates of Karamoja like Iteso and Langi are also part of this Tobong
Lore (come back home) event.
Attracting some 10, 000 people, the
occasion is usually jam-packed with several activities that make it possible
for these relatives to intermingle, appreciate and retell of their social
cultural heritage and the need for continued coexistence amidst endless
challenges of today.
Different traditional activities from
the various clusters (Ateker) within the four Countries are performed;
exhibitions; foods, clothes, games, stories, songs, poems, ritual items, peace
negotiations characterize the Karamoja cultural week.
The theme for this year is, “Security
in Karamoja; The Role of Culture and Traditional Mechanisms in Steering a
Peaceful Karamoja”. This theme was deliberately chosen to open doors for
discussing strategies for attaining peace in Karamoja by the Ateker. It
further hints on the taskforce to be entrusted with sustainable peace efforts
in the region.
Hitherto, the key decision makers in the
Karamojong community are the traditional leaders, -the elders. They commission
every activity whether good or bad. The youth (karacuna) cannot initiate or
execute any risky activity such as cattle raids (ajore) without the consent and
proper guidance of elders. The elders equally call the Karacuna to
order when they see them go amiss.
The cultural event this year thus offers
fertile ground for peace brokers to fortify efforts aimed at tapping the
Karamojong elders off the conflict related knobs as the first and most critical
step towards bringing peace, tranquility and development back to the
region.
The Karamojong have been killing each
other and clashed with neighbors over livestock for over four decades now, -
something that has obstructed their social economic transformation. This trend
could change with constant activities that bring the Ateker together.
Such activities can be integrated with a streamlined uniform resource
distribution mechanism and steadied border security that abates unnecessary
proliferation of arms.
Previous peace initiatives supported by
the Intergovernmental Authority on Development (IGAD) and other development
partners quelled the fire exchange for some time, but the gains couldn’t be
sustained due to survival pressures exacerbated by COVID-19 outbreak, the
invasion of desert locusts and most recently the army worms that swept off most
planted crops.
This year’s event in Abim is expected to
trigger a big discussion around working together with different stakeholders
for sustainable peace and development in the region. KCA’s idea of bringing the
Karamojong clusters together should be commended because it aims at rebuilding
and strengthening unity, peace and emboldening a patriotic Karamojong society
through cultural activities. This is the best way to start work that
will sustainably placate this community.
Largely portrayed as the most regressive
group across countries of their existence, the Karamojong have distinctive
attributes to note. First is resilience; they live in a setting
deprived of adequate rainfall, making it tough generally for; man, livestock
and vegetation to thrive. To this extent, these pastoralists see no option but
to scramble for the limited natural resources; water, pasture and so they have
remained nomadic and chaotic.
Secondly, Karamoja region is plagued
with inexorable armed violence, diseases, hunger, infrastructural gaps and the
lowest literacy level ranking. The latest report by Uganda Bureau of
Statistics(UBOS) rates Karamoja as the poorest with 85 percent of the 1.2
million people experiencing multidimensional poverty. These difficult conditions somehow force the Karimojong to make
desperate, risky survival decisions such as cattle rustling and trade in arms.
The forthcoming cultural festival offers
the best opportunity for peace actors, both Governments and NGOs to slot in
strategic efforts aimed at paralyzing the current wave of insecurity in
Karamoja. Key peace and development actors like the UN, IGAD, Government
ministries and other NGOs need to take advantage of this event by offering
technical and financial resources to facilitate sessions of peace dialogue
involving the Karamojong cluster elders.
This article was also published in the New Vision News paper of Wednesday 31, August 2022
Tuesday, May 10, 2022
Tumu the Man Who Saved an Idiot
When
time for rolling back home came, things turned out theatrical, yes and exceedingly
so. A colleague who noticed how argumentative I had grown, offered to give me a
lead-car support. His car ahead of me as we drove back home. I followed him with
an extreme gig on the accelerator, - courtesy of Guinness, that thick aromatic
Irish beer. Just know, it was hazardous!
This
is a narrative of an Angelic intervention. A thing rarely expected from a group largely perceived
as disloyal. I had never appreciated any boda-boda
rider in this country. Just know, these guys always made me sick. Until this
day, I considered them as people who; respect no body, act stupid always, dupe
their clients flat and are unjustifiably hysterical.
My
lead car soon disappeared in the thin air, just like that. I can’t explain what
exactly happened. What I know is that my colleague had his own doze to deal
with. So I found myself at a Total petrol station failing to position the car
correctly so as to refill gas. I requested
the attendant to do for me two things; position the car well and fill up the
tank after confessing that I was fully tanked-up.
A
Ugsh20,000 note filled up my tank and there was a balance of Ugsh5,000 handed
back to me. This is when I remembered that I had already taken enough gas in
the morning ahead of a planned travel to the village that afternoon. I hadn’t anticipated
getting this submerged.
There
was a boda-boda rider who enjoyed my
show at the petrol station. He kept a considerate gaze at me, as if I were his
uncle. Under normal circumstances, I wouldn’t trust his look. Brownish, slender
young man with a protracted nose, wide mouth. His so many large white teeth
were visible at night. It was already a half past midnight and I desperately
needed to get home safe. There was no traffic jam, and the few automobiles
moved at breakneck speed, making it risky for a blotto.
“Why
are you over looking at me like that my brother?” I asked the boda-boy. He responded
with a smile and, “nothing sir”. I opened up to him and ask for a favor to ride
ahead of me without allowing me go the wrong way. “Okay sir”, he agreed. His name
is Tumu…something William, I can’t remember fully. Tumu stopped twice, hooting
to guide me through until we reached home. Tumu opened the gate and closed with
my instructions. He opened the house door and picked two laptops from the car
putting them in the bedroom and asked for a negligible 2k for his service, but I
offered 5k and gave him my number, to call me back when the sun is up.
Tumu
hasn’t called me until now, I think he was an Angel from heaven. I hope he lives down here with us. This
reminds me of what English poet, William Blake said, “to generalize is to be an
idiot”. Indeed, despite the criminal elements within the boda-boda riders today, I refuse to be idiotic by carrying all
these guys in the same wagon again. People like Tumu are real saints who live amidst
this wrongly projected fraternity. He saved my life. May God reward you Tumu
wherever you are.
Thursday, April 28, 2022
We Escaped Such Tough Times Through Mom
Even
before factoring in the impact of COVID-19 and the current global economic recession
conditioned by uncharacteristic upsurge in gasoline prices around the world,
some of us already grew up knowing that months of; April, May and June are generally
problematic annually.
Here
was and still is my mom’s copping mechanism for these months: When we were
young, my mom, a dedicated school teacher never relied 100% on her skimpy salary
to support her family needs. Her side hustle has always been in the garden. Yes,
and she’s still in the garden, toiling, fighting with the brownish hard soil of
Abim.
Mom
would slice and dry sweet potatoes and keep in bags ahead of the difficult
times. My mom would also uproot, sort, boil and spread dry all types of leafy green
vegetables including; peas (boo)
and hibiscus cannabinus (amalakwang).
Then when a penny hits her wallet after 30 days of breaking different colours
of chalk, she would save in cereals, legumes so that December gets her with
some 100 kilograms of beans at home. This way, she managed to feed her eight children
(63% boys, 37% girls), meet family medical bills and pay our school fees.
Back
then, mom preferred the tinny black and nutritious beans imported from Lango, Lira. This type of beans is cheap, very cheap, affordable. Boy, this is how madam managed to keep
us alive, and to enable us grow. Yes, that’s why my face shines! We ate black
beans from January to January without fatigue. We fed on sorghum, boo, amalakwang, sweet
potatoes, shea butter and related wild fruits.
Mom
would also take advantage of family labour during school holidays such as this.
I didn’t like the four kilometer walk to gardens behind those Abim hills of
Morulem Sub County. I learnt how to use a hoe at age six. My mom put too much
pressure on me and I thought she hated me. That wasn’t the case, she just
wanted to build her children for the unpredictable future.
I
wonder how easy it is today for us to compel our children to accommodate the
type of life that some of us went through. A quick response from most of us
including this author is, “I don’t have to make my children go through what I went
through”. True, water doesn’t stagnate under the bridge, it has to drift away along
with its load so as to pave way for a fresh flow coming with a new season, with
new load.
I
wonder what our children do these days during such long school breaks. How much
garden work do our children help us with? Do we even think it is not child
abuse to allow a child hold a hoe? How do they connect with society and how do
they get friends? Methinks our children are enjoying a lot of protection, and
they may not be able to see the need to change their current life. Our children
have it, Laissez-faire.
Back
then too, we had some gaps. In the youthful days of Itachi, Panasonic and Sony,
some ‘spoilt’ children would organize village dance parties to allow them
reconnect with friends from other schools. This is how some people ended up
spotting their life-long spouses, but majority simply used such occasions for
exploration. Today, the genuine soulmate hunters are settled as husbands and
wives, but the explorers are still on flight.